When we love someone with our heart, we become so blind that when we see that person far from perfection, even then we can not stop loving him/her. When we have to choose our life partner we should be objective and choose the one with whom we can live in peace and with respect and trust.

Marriage is an institution and it should never be taken casually!

Marriage, a word, as scared as it sounds, truly holds a sacred position in Islam. Nikkah is what bounds two souls together in our religion. There are certain conditions that need to be fulfilled for Nikkah and the same holds true for marriage.
The first condition (requirement) for marriage between a Muslim man and woman is mutual attraction and then comes the Dowry.
For people who have never met their spouses before marriage, might realize years later if they really love their spouse or better yet are attracted? But that would be too late...wouldn't it be???
Engagement seems like a very important period for the couple to know about each other and to see if they really do attract and if he/she really is the right person.
Where an engagement gives the couple ample time to consider one another within the religious boundaries, it also sometimes shows the man or the woman, that side of their fiance, that no one else might have seen or known .Thereby helping the man/woman to decide whether to take this engagement to the next step (marriage) or call it off!!!
Engagement does seem like a very important part of this institute called marriage!! well to me at-least!!

no regrets - just lessons learned!!!

by Anonymus but very well said!

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...

hopeless hope

the bitter reality of life- sometimes the hope in your heart, gets trapped inside. You can not share it with anyone, nor can you express it.
You keep thinking about it day and night, and woefully, it dies its own death. A slow, silentious, mournful death.
and while you agonize over its death, you 'hope' for its reincarnation.
--------had I known, I would have saved this hope--------------------

make it stop oh Dear God!!!

back in Queen's land!!!

so I am back in Queen's land.... and this time, its a stress free, no studies stay!!
Thank God for that, but maybe the reason behind this stay is more stressful. Working in U.K is not going to be easy, especially if it is a medical/dental field.

darya kee talash main gum hoon

aik aisay darya kee talash main gum hoon, jo samandar main na giray....buss behta jayay..behta jayay... aur aik nao ho, jo uss main behti jayay...behti jayay.. kabhi na rukay
na uss naoo kee koi manzil ho aur na hee darya uss ko kissi manzil pohncha sakay....