When we love someone with our heart, we become so blind that when we see that person far from perfection, even then we can not stop loving him/her. When we have to choose our life partner we should be objective and choose the one with whom we can live in peace and with respect and trust.
Marriage, a word, as scared as it sounds, truly holds a sacred position in Islam. Nikkah is what bounds two souls together in our religion. There are certain conditions that need to be fulfilled for Nikkah and the same holds true for marriage. The first condition (requirement) for marriage between a Muslim man and woman is mutual attraction and then comes the Dowry. For people who have never met their spouses before marriage, might realize years later if they really love their spouse or better yet are attracted? But that would be too late...wouldn't it be??? Engagement seems like a very important period for the couple to know about each other and to see if they really do attract and if he/she really is the right person. Where an engagement gives the couple ample time to consider one another within the religious boundaries, it also sometimes shows the man or the woman, that side of their fiance, that no one else might have seen or known .Thereby helping the man/woman to decide whether to take this engagement to the next step (marriage) or call it off!!! Engagement does seem like a very important part of this institute called marriage!! well to me at-least!!
the bitter reality of life- sometimes the hope in your heart, gets trapped inside. You can not share it with anyone, nor can you express it. You keep thinking about it day and night, and woefully, it dies its own death. A slow, silentious, mournful death. and while you agonize over its death, you 'hope' for its reincarnation. --------had I known, I would have saved this hope--------------------
so I am back in Queen's land.... and this time, its a stress free, no studies stay!! Thank God for that, but maybe the reason behind this stay is more stressful. Working in U.K is not going to be easy, especially if it is a medical/dental field.
aik aisay darya kee talash main gum hoon, jo samandar main na giray....buss behta jayay..behta jayay... aur aik nao ho, jo uss main behti jayay...behti jayay.. kabhi na rukay na uss naoo kee koi manzil ho aur na hee darya uss ko kissi manzil pohncha sakay....